You're kind of a massive downer, y'know? You are fine looking. You don't think so cause everyone is insecure of their bodies. I, my best friend, my older brother, and my cousin are all models, and they are all insecure about their appearance. I look in the mirror some days too and dislike my appearance, comparing myself to other people, mostly famous people, regretting that I don't look like them. But just cause you don't look like them doesn't mean you aren't beautiful. For 1, unless you have loads of people air brushing your photos to perfection, they aren't going to come out as good as models in magazines. 2) People like Ryan Gosling, Hugh Jackman, Jennifer Lawrence, etc, are beautiful people, but their glamour is heightened in our eyes because of their fame. I mean, they weren't topping lists of "Most Beautiful People" before they were super famous, and the fame didn't make them any more attractive.
Like I said, I look at myself in the mirror sometimes and think, "dang I wish I looked like Ryan Gosling", or more specifically, something like "dang I wish my abs were more defined", "I wish my cheek bones were more defined", "I wish my (body part) was (more/less) (something)". But thats just me being a heavy critique. I'm an artist and poet, super critical of my own work, but other people like it, so I can at least say, objectively, "well some people find what I do beautiful, even if, at times, I don't". I do modeling and people want to take my photograph, so as insecure as I can be about my appearance, I can at least look at the evidence, ignoring my own bias, and say "well, if people want to take my photograph, then I know, objectively, some people find me beautiful, even if sometimes I don't".
You're really popular here. All these people think you're beautiful. You don't have to believe them all the time, but don't be a dick and tell them you're wrong. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I understand being insecure sometimes, but at least recognize that the opinions of your "fans" are valid ones, and that, as insecure as you or anyone else can be, you are very beautiful in some peoples eyes.
Like I said, I look at myself in the mirror sometimes and think, "dang I wish I looked like Ryan Gosling", or more specifically, something like "dang I wish my abs were more defined", "I wish my cheek bones were more defined", "I wish my (body part) was (more/less) (something)". But thats just me being a heavy critique. I'm an artist and poet, super critical of my own work, but other people like it, so I can at least say, objectively, "well some people find what I do beautiful, even if, at times, I don't". I do modeling and people want to take my photograph, so as insecure as I can be about my appearance, I can at least look at the evidence, ignoring my own bias, and say "well, if people want to take my photograph, then I know, objectively, some people find me beautiful, even if sometimes I don't".
You're really popular here. All these people think you're beautiful. You don't have to believe them all the time, but don't be a dick and tell them you're wrong. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I understand being insecure sometimes, but at least recognize that the opinions of your "fans" are valid ones, and that, as insecure as you or anyone else can be, you are very beautiful in some peoples eyes.